After it’s over, it’s time to clean up and say good night. It’s nice to have a towel next to the bed to wipe up. If you really want to impress a pro, have a pan of warm water with a warm wash cloth by the bed. Nothing feels better than a nice warm wash cloth. Otherwise, have some wash cloths in your bathroom for her to clean up. I keep an open box of tampons on the sink for guests to use. Just having these basic supplies available will impress most escorts. It doesn’t take much to be a considerate client.
After she cleans up, she will need to call the agency and let them know she is done and is okay. Once she’s made the call, you say goodbye and tell her that you had a nice time. If she likes you, you’ll get a hug and maybe a kiss. Look around and make sure she has everything. Some dating for casual sex adults women are bad about forgetting things like their pagers or articles of clothing. If she’s had a good time she’s more likely to leave things behind.
Becoming a “Regular”
If you find an escort you like and you see her many times, the sex usually gets better. You get to know each other better and know what each other likes. Like any relationship, the more time you spend together the better you get at it.
After a few sessions with the same person you become what is called a “regular”. Escorts prefer to see regulars because they know what to expect, know your not a cop, and know you’re not a trouble maker. One way you can tell if your escort considers you a regular is when you pay. If she let’s you pay afterwards, you’re a regular.
Relationships with escorts can last for decades and a regular relationship can be fulfilling on many levels other than just sex.
Becoming a regular is like having a surrogate relationship. It’s not the same as being married and living happily ever after. However, it’s a lot better than being alone. There are a lot of people in the world that traditional marriage isn’t something that’s going to work. The idea that “there’s someone for everyone” is a myth. If you find that someone and you have a golden anniversary, that’s just great. But for most of us, that just isn’t going to happen. And you can make yourself miserable waiting for it.
I personally like having several limited but yet still very personal relationships with several women. I have a lot of women friends and a variety of lovers and it works for me. It make not be ideal, by we don’t live in an ideal world. I think I’m doing as well as I can under the circumstances. I’m happy with it and it works for me.
Since women move from service to service and in and out of the business I like to develop a regular relationship with several escorts. This way if your favorite is on the rag, in a bad mood, out of town, or quits, you have other choices to fall back on. Sometimes your just in the mood for someone different. If I find an escort I really like I generally give her my card and tell her if she changes employers to call me and let me know who she’s working for. I’ve also had women who got out of the business but still keep me as their only client. And part of the reason for that is that I gave them my phone number.